I said NO

So, I turned down the job offer for a couple of reasons. The money might have been comparable…but…she might have expected a lot of me for that. Also, I felt really proud to work at Julia’s Kitchen at Copia. I really wouldn’t feel proud to tell people where I worked if I worked there, not that it’s a bad place or anything. It just would feel like a step backwards to me. There’s a big difference between fine dining and sushi.

I had planned to go out job hunting in Napa again today, but I am really low on funds and can’t afford the gas money. Sad. It’s up to $4.19 at the Bonfare gas station on the corner. I should have my monthly fsusd auto deposit on this coming Saturday, May 31st. That is all supposed to go to bills that come out of the account automatically. I really am not sure exactly when I’ll get my first unemployment check. So, I must be careful, and as hard as it is I have to say no to going out to brunch, going out to dinner, and going wine tasting. It sucks! I love all of those things!

Odd Job Offer

So I get a call this morning from a woman who tells me she is calling from the restaurant I applied at. “Which restaurant?’, I ask. (I’ve applied at 10, at least) She explains, then she tells me she would like to see what I look like. I ask her when she would like me to come in for an interview? She says 7. I ask, “Tomorrow morning? At 7:00 AM?”. She says, “No, tonight at 7”. I agree.

Tonight I go to the interview and mind you I have looked online at the menu, and it is pizza, pasta, and steaks. Not exactly at the price point I am used to, but I figure I will check it out, because it is located in a really nice area. I meet the owner and she hands me a menu and I almost cough because…it’s all sushi! I tell her that I looked at the menu online, and this is different! She says she just bought the restaurant three weeks ago and hasn’t changed it yet. She asks about my experience and I tell her. I look around the room and only see three tables filled. She says she would like to give me a two week trial. I tell her that honestly I don’t think I could make enough money there to be worth it for me. She looks at me and thinks and asks how much I made a week at my old job. I tell her about $500 working Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday nights. She writes this down and I can see her thinking. Then she offers to pay me a salary to cover the wages I would miss working there. I was confused and wondered if she was wanting to hire me as a manager. She explains that most of the employees there weren’t much more than kids and that she would like someone older to work there as a head server/kind of a manager. I told her I needed to think about it and promised that I would call her tomorrow.

My gut feeling says, “No, this isn’t what I was looking for at all. I love working in fine dining”. But my head keeps going around with all the posibilities. I’m going to sleep on it and see how I feel in the morning.

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Day 5

I had an interview and a half on Monday. The interview was at a nice wine bar downtown Napa, and the half was at a gorgeous restaurant in Yountville. Both might be hiring soon, but nothing at this precise moment.

I planned to go out again today. And then I planned not to. I dunno. I felt PMS-y. Plus I had to work, then go to the bank. That part was important, I was close to being overdrawn! Then when I got home and checked the mail there were three letters from unemployment. I’m trying to understand all of that. I need to apply to CA Jobs and then go register somewhere in town and bring my SS Card and my CDL. I will be getting a decent weekly amount, but I still don’t know when I will start getting it? I hope soon or I will run out of gas money!

The plan is tomorrow to take care of the Unemployment stuff, then on Thursday make another run to Napa and apply some more.

I truly wish I could take the summer off from work. Wouldn’t that be grand!? I think it would be now, but I’d probably be bored. And, I do like money!

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Twitter Marraige Proposal

No, no, no, not to me, but it happened! I think it’s a first too! Not the most traditional romantic way to propose. But definitely a geeky romantic way to propose! This put a smile on my face from ear to ear and I had to share it with everyone. Spread the good news!

Here is the proposal:

markdavidson: @DaisyAvenue Will you marry me? Please DM me with your response. Thank you.

For those of you not members of the Twitter.com community, DM stands for Direct Message. So we weren’t privy to her response, but it looks like it was a yes from the following twitters (note~ FB stands for Facebook.com, IM stands for Instant Message):

DaisyAvenue @jeanettejoy Yerp- we met on Twitter, added each other on FB, courted on IM first, then phone. Love at first sight when we met finally. ūüôā

DaisyAvenue EMAIL: Mark said on Facebook that you two are engaged. We need you to confirm that you are, in fact, engaged to Mark. To confirm…

DaisyAvenue @jfritsche Thanks so much! @markdavidson just changed his FB profile to say engaged and it is making me confirm LOL!!

DaisyAvenue Ques. just in: Celebrating your engagement. Wondering since you met him online and he proposed online does your ring come from online too?

DaisyAvenue Answer: @markdavidson says that the ring is on its way from Amazon. Zappos doesn’t sell rings. Yet.

Their friends react:

jpostman @QueenofSpain @markdavidson proposed to @daisyavenue and she accepted

GreenSmith @DaisyAvenue N E R D S! Sending tweetulations….

jpostman @DaisyAvenue @markdavidson love you guys, congratulations!

mousewords @DaisyAvenue I’m totally presuming there will be a designated Twitterer during the wedding ceremony. ūüėČ

jpostman @mousewords Will you be seated on the following or followers side of the aisle?

Some were not so kind:

monnie @marvlove PROPOSED ON TWITTER? WHAT A BLOODY PUBLICITY STUNT! OMGOSH ILL GET MORE FRIENDS IF I PROPSE!

But me? I believe in love, I believe in romance. And the happy couple?

DaisyAvenue @GreenSmith TY!! We are so nerdy that not only was the proposal & answer here but we both bet on Twitter not getting our tweets out right!

DaisyAvenue What does a newly engaged couple do? Come home, go thru Summize, fav the reactions and beam at each other. ūüôā And what a reaction!

DaisyAvenue BTW- Love does drive traffic. 46 new followers just since @markdavidson proposed to me. Does that mean that you will all be at the wedding?

Love, love, love! It comes it all types, shapes and sizes, doesn’t it? Congratulations @DaisyAvenue and @markdavidson. I wish you both every happiness! From, @lauralovesart.

In a sidenote I received a message from @markdavidson about my blog:

markdavidson @lauralovesart Thank you very much and thank you for the blog post. We’re saving that one to a flash stick. ūüôā

correction :
markdavidson Re-blurbed: http://twitter.com/lauralov… (Actually @kosso and @01000101 were engaged almost a full year ahead of us.

1000101 replied ~ @markdavidson WHOA! You’re engaged?!!! Congrats! No @kosso didn’t propose to me via twitter – we “met” on twitter ūüôā

P.S. I LOVE comments!

The Search Begins…

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Well, I must have gone to at least 10 places yesterday to apply/pick up applications.  I had a few good responses, a few mediocre and a few just not hiring right now.  I have an interview on Monday at 3pm at Zuzu's, wine bar and tapas.  There were three or four places that said they were hiring, but the owner was out of town until Wednesday, I guess enjoying a long Memorial Day weekend. 

Angela C. was bored, after finishing her finals at U.C. Berkeley on Thursday and said she wanted to come and hang out with me.  She also was bringing her son, Elijah.  I said, "Sure!".  I really wasn't sure how that was all going to work out?  But it did.  I sent them to the Oxbow to look around and I met them there for a few minutes in between, they loved it!  Angela fell in love with the coffee there.  Then they came downtown where I was and walked around and when I was finished I met them and we looked around a bit together.  Then Angela wanted to go and get dinner, but I had taken out some chicken breasts at home to thaw, and mainly I just can't spend any money that isn't absolutely necessary, like for gas, so I had to say no.  I felt bad though.  But they went back to the Oxbow to eat and seemed to have a really nice day enjoying each others' company.  It was nice to see. 

During the day I stopped in at Julia's Kitchen to pick up my check and $50 back tips that I was owed.  I walked up and saw Nick, Kris, and Joel at the bar.  Joel took me back to the office.  Nick was not friendly at all, wouldn't even really look at me.  I'm not sure what that was about.  So, Joel pulled $200 out of his pocket and gave it to me.  I think with my paycheck and back tips it would have been close to $100, so he gave me an extra $100 and said that was from him personally.  I need to write him a thank you note.  I was totally calm and matter of fact until he gave me the money.  Then I melted into a puddle.  I don't know what it is, but when people do or say things that are unexpectedly and extremely nice, even if it isn't toward me, I get very emotional.  I know Joel feels bad.  It must suck to be him and have to tell people they are fired.  We've known each other a long time between Villa Romano and now Julia's Kitchen. 

An odd random thing happened.  While I was downtown trying to find Angela and Elijah I saw someone and thought, that looks like Shannon (a co-worker at Julia's), then I realized, hey that IS Shannon, so I called to her and then I looked up and Jeannie (another co-worker) was practically right next to me!  I guess the two of them were going out to eat sushi between shifts.  We chatted for a minute about the situation and promised to keep in touch.  Then Angela and Elijah showed up and we all went our separate ways. 

Instead of cooking the chicken last night Lee Ann invited Alexandra and I to dinner.  We were planning to come down and visit with them anyways.  Lee Ann and Alicia are leave around 4Th of July to move to Missouri.  Lee Ann has been one of my closest friends for about 15 years now.  I'm really sad she's moving and want to spend as much time as possible with her before she goes.  She made pasta and a marinara meat sauce and garlic french bread and Caesar salad.  It was really good, but a bit garlicky for my stomach!  We also drank a bottle and a half of Riesling!  Alexandra had to drive home.  It was good to relax and visit with her.  I needed that. 

Unless Zuzu's hires me on Monday this may be a long process.  Hopefully they will hire me.  I just need to be really careful with every penny until at least the unemployment payments kick in. 

 

I’m not a waitress or a food server

I’m not.¬† Not today anyways.¬† It’s weird, I’ve been doing that for maybe 8 years now.¬† But right now I’m not.¬†

I actually really enjoy it the majority of the time.¬† And taking home piles of cash is always fun.¬† But I guess I’m at a bit of a crossroads right now and can choose to do something different if I decide to.¬† Take off those golden handcuffs.

I guess I should check out some other options.  What else might be fun?  What else could bring me piles of cash? 

I’m waiting.¬† Waiting for Carson Black of Sacramento Web Development to finish my website, thesmartmomsnetwork.com.¬† Isn’t that like one of the longest url’s ever?¬† Oh well, it says it all and it was available!¬† Like me.¬† I’m available.¬† Available for hire, anyway.¬† So the latest date is June 2nd.¬† June 2nd we will be in beta.¬† I can’t wait.¬† I am so tired of being a business woman with no business.¬† Give me my business!¬† Okay, I must need sleep.

I’m not really a waitress.¬† One of my favorite OPI lipstick and nail polish colors.¬† It’s a beautiful blue red, and on a positive note, now I can paint my nails any shade I wish!¬† I’m not really a waitress.¬† I’m a business woman.¬†

Published in: on May 24, 2008 at 7:47 am  Leave a Comment  
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Day 2~ let go, fired, downsized, not needed

Today my GM Joel Tavison called me around noon to tell me that he was going to start writing my letter of reference at 1:00 PM when the Dining Room manager Nick Estefan came in.  He said he would call me if we were going to be open tonight. 

Finally about 4:15 PM I called.¬† The hostess Claudia answered and I asked her if we were open tonight and she said yes.¬† I asked her how many reservations we had and she said 70.¬† I asked if I could talk to Joel, but she told me he was in a meeting and asked if I wanted to talk to Nick.¬† So I said, “okay”.¬† She puts me on hold and then comes back and tells me Nick and Joel are both in a meeting.¬† So, I said, ”¬†Well, Joel told me that he would call me if we were open tonight so I could come in to work.”¬† So she says she will try to check with him and call me back.¬† She calls back 10 minutes later and tells me that I’m not scheduled for tonight.¬† Great.¬† (I really don’t understand why Joel would call me today and tell me he’d let me know if we were open tonight so I could work, and then this?)¬† So I say, well I will come in anyway to pick up my check and my letter of reference.¬† She calls me back again saying that Joel hasn’t finished my letter of reference and will do it in the morning.¬† I ask her if I can pick up my check and she says she doesn’t know and will get back to me.¬† She hasn’t.

This all is really disappointing.¬† I should have been able to work tonight.¬† I should have been able to make a little money to hold me over until I get another job or the end of the month, when I get my school district check.¬† But that really does me no good, all of that has to go right back out to pay bills.¬† I really don’t understand why this is happening to me.¬† I have more seniority than any other server there.¬† I have been told that I get better comment cards than anyone else.¬† I have two couples that come in every Friday night and request me.¬† One couple is about to celebrate their 200th dinner, the other is about to celebrate their 100th.¬† The people who come in the most prefer me.¬† Me.¬†

This new president and CEO of Copia, Garry McGuire Jr. seems to be running around¬†making poor snap decisions¬†like a chicken with his head cut off.¬† We are heading in to our busy season where we do 100 people at lunch consistently and he has decided to only serve lunch three days a week, on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday.¬† On the other days they are opening a bistro in Copia, which is really a glorified cafeteria, where people will walk up to the counter to order.¬† Classy.¬†He says this is because they don’t make money during the slow season at lunch.¬† Okay, well close it down to three days during the slow season then, not during the busy season.¬† Duh.¬† I hear from my friends that this cafeteria is not working out well at all. Customers that come into the restaurant for a fine dining experience are having long wait times for their food, while the kitchen puts out burgers to the cafeteria/bistro. Next he is closing down the restaurant for renovations for three weeks during the start of the busy season.¬† This starts next week I’m told.¬† So even the people that are full time, that they want to keep, are going to be out of a job for three weeks.¬† None of us have enough savings to afford that.¬† I think all the employees are going to be out job hunting.¬† That means that Julia’s Kitchen will lose even more of it’s wonderful staff.¬† We need new chairs right now.¬† The rest of the renovation could have been saved for January, when they are now planning to close for a month,¬†this could¬†give the staff enough time to plan for it as well.¬† And he is letting good people go, me included of course, with no warning or even a severance package.¬† Firstly, it’s stupid.¬† Secondly, it’s mean.¬† It’s definitely causing me a lot of undue stress and hardship.¬†

I seriously live through the month on my tips.¬† My school district job covers my bills and provides health insurance benefits and my restaurant job covers my kids and my¬†living expenses.¬† I had no time to prepare for this, no notice.¬† Now I have $23.¬† There is some money in the bank but I think I have more bills that may be coming out so I can’t touch that unless it’s an emergency.¬†

This is horrendous.  How did this happen to me? 

I applied for unemployment, but I really don’t know how that works or how much I will get or when I will get it.¬†

I spent yesterday and today waiting around, hoping against hope that I would at least be able to work my last two shifts.  I could have spent that time picking up applications and turning in resumes. 

Today I printed out copies of my cover letter, resume, and three letters of recommendation that I had.  I also emailed all of that to Auberge du Soleil and Etoile at Domaine Chandon. 

I talked to my friend/co-worker/former co-worker Norrel.¬† She is so sweet and fun, I will miss seeing her dearly.¬† I mean I guess we can all hang out now and then, but still.¬† She really didn’t know half the story.¬† She was so kind, told me she would ask around and let me know if she heard of anyone who was hiring.¬† Of course I’ll do the same for her.¬† She just started pastry classes this week.¬† She is becoming a chef.¬†

I¬†heard from my friend Leo tonight.¬† He was going to the new Narnia movie, Prince of Caspian, I think.¬† He just called randomly to say hello.¬† He was shocked when I told him.¬† The good thing is that he gave me a lead on a place to apply that I’ve never heard of in Hiddenbrooke in Vallejo.¬† I’ll check it out tomorrow.¬† ¬†

My friend Patricia called me, hoping I wouldn’t answer because I was at work, but I did.¬†

I’m feeling a bit sad and depressed and sorry for myself.¬† I need to snap out of it though. It definitely won’t help.¬† And I’ve read The Secret.¬† I know what I need to do to fix things.¬† I’m just too much in shock and denial to do it right now.¬†

I have a big list of places to apply.¬† I plan to head out in the morning and pick up applications.¬† I wish gas prices weren’t so high and Napa wasn’t so far away though.¬† Wish me luck.

 

Published in: on May 24, 2008 at 3:41 am  Leave a Comment  
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let go, fired, downsized, not needed

Hire me, please.¬† Yes, today I was let go, fired, downsized.¬† I was advised, “I’m sorry, but I’ve been¬†told from the new president of
Copia, Garry McGuire Jr., to let all the part-time employees go.”¬† I am a part-time employee, so that meant me.¬† This actually happened when I called in to find out what time I worked tonight.¬† That may seem last minute, but actually I had called yesterday, as well.¬† And the schedule which starts on Sunday is rarely posted until Saturday afternoon.¬† ¬†

So, instead of working tonight and bringing home close to $200, here I sit, blogging. 

I don’t blame my manager Joel, he’s a sweet guy, and he’s just following orders, and truly seems to feel bad about it all.¬† He’s willing to give me a letter of recommendation and has given me a few leads of places that are hiring.¬† That’s all I can ask for at the moment.

It’s unfair though, because of all the food servers at Julia’s Kitchen, I actually have the most seniority.¬† Even though I work part-time, I have been there the longest, since October of 2006.¬† I have stayed when everyone else left, through five – count them – managers. Steve, Jane, Noel, Jane again, and Joel. Also, Rose, Jazmin and Eric who were acting managers for short periods of time. Also, I have regular customers who love me.¬† There are two couples that come in and ask for me every Friday night.¬† The Curley’s, John and Cathy, and the Poliak’s, Richard and Cathy. I had special plans for them to celebrate their 100th and 200th visit respectively.¬† The sad thing is, I won’t even be able explain and say goodbye to them or any of my friends/co-workers.¬†

Whose idea was brunch? Mine! (And it’s been very successful I must say!) Who always shows up for her shifts? Me! Who has come in many times on short notice to help out? ME!

I filed for unemployment.¬† That was a bit confusing.¬† Apparently both of my part-time jobs, including the one I’m not fired from – with the school district – will pay for¬†the unemployment that I draw.¬† They seemed to want to know more information from the job I still work for than for the one I was fired from.¬† Why?

I have almost $300 in the bank and about $23 in cash.  To last until the end of the month. 

This sucks!

The plan is:  Apply for unemployment.  Check.  Update resume.  Make copies of letters of reference.  Start applying at every fine dining restaurant in Napa. 

Do I blame the economy?¬† Do I blame the new president of Copia, Garry McGuire Jr.?¬† I really don’t know who to blame.¬† All I know is that as difficult and unexpected as it is, I need to find a new job and fast.¬† Wish me luck!

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